20 THINGS EVERY YOUNG

WOMAN IN HER 20's SHOULD

KNOW

1. Love and honour your mother. Learn from

her mistakes. It will save you a lot of

headache in your thirties (30s) and beyond.

2. You are more talented than you’ll ever

know. You don’t need to sleep with your

Boss/ supervisor to get a promotion at work

or better grades at school. Burn late night

candles; put extra time to study and practice

until you master your skill. Hard work still

pays well and does not kill.

3. Women can build a strong support

network. Don’t let few ladies with “Pull Her

Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage you from

cultivating true relationship with your female

friends.

4. Walk away from deceit. When a man you

meet for the first time babbles about how

much he earns working for an oil company

and how rich he is, that is a red flag. He is

either a married smooth-talker who just

wants to sleep with you or he is childish.

5. Make your own money. Start small.

Maintain a stable bank account. It will keep

you out of trouble.

6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t

forget to wear your most priceless ornament

– submission and humility. But while waiting

for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue

you. Some men these days are also seeking

for who will rescue them.

7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front

of a full-length mirror at least once a week,

naked and after clothed. Know your body and

how it works.

8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must

be ready to put a lot into nurturing your

gifts/talents and skills. Start early.

9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means

doing away with childish behaviour. But it

does not mean you should forget to have fun.

You can catch fun and not be dirty.

10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself

grow – from how to keep your underwear

clean, cook, socialize, and network to how to

drive a car.

11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it

fortifies. Dance as often as you can, it

liberates your spirit, soul and body.

12. Learn to laugh at yourself. It is a good

way to build a healthy self-esteem.

13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself.

Don’t rely on noodles alone. The cooking skill

will be useful in future.

14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again

and again. Don’t give up on education/

learning.

15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind

you must learn to tame. Don’t let fear pull

the carpet from under your feet. God has not

given us a spirit of fear but of power, love

and a sound mind.

16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move

forward if you keep looking back. Holding on

to bitter experiences and regrets will stale

your future.

17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind

to others, especially those of low estate, and

the lowest of low.

18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t

compare yourself to others.

19. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever

forget that.

20. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in

God and always have the courage to use

your voice wisely. Dream big today. FEAR

simply means False Evidence Appearing Real.

Enjoy the highs and lows that come with

being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow

older. Live life to the fullest and don’t forget

to smile always!

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